If you and your spouse are from the same church, the Pastor is the best counselor you can get..(I'm Buddhist) Family Services Counselor is a hit and miss. In terms of social and family support, I feel churches does a good job. Sometimes you are in it so deep, is difficult to pull yourself out.
I have been to the church for family counselling. If you have a faith you may like to approach them. They would be able to provide some counselling.
You can go to the family service center they provide free marriage counselling.