Mentally and emotionally unbalanced

Recently I'm been feeling mentally and emotionally unbalanced with my in-laws. Been living tgt since married and I'm pregnant w their first grandchild and they still decided to move out to their new house leaving me behind when I need them the most. Although as mentioned tat will come back frequently to help but I just keep feeling tat it's so not the right time. Now I keep telling myself tat just let them be and I'll be fine but on the other hand I keep thinking and worrying. 😔 I know I will always have the support from my mom but as her health is not tat good I oso don't want to. 😔 I just keep thinking about y can't the in-law support more when it's their first grandchild (their own blood grandchild). I'm so mentally and emotionally affected. 😭 #pleasehelp #firsttimemom #firstbaby #firstmom

Vô danh

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i am currently staying with my in-laws (waiting for our new hse to be ready). my in-laws and my parents are not helping us at all (cause they refuse to retire and also are afraid to take care of baby). my hubby and I have been managing well on our own although the initial 1mth plus was exhausting as we had no experience or any external help. sometimes i wish for some help so I could just relax for abit but when I see the way they carry baby or keep giving "old school" advices, I am glad I take care of my bb myself 😅 also my friends whose babies are looked after by in-laws, shared unhappy stories every week... anyway I cant wait to move out cause its really nice to have your own space and teach your bb the way you want to. i would also take it as a nice gesture that your in-laws are giving you more space for your soon to be 3 family 🥰 try to relax and let nature takes it course

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