Absolutely relatable! Sometimes I wonder if this is my husband’s strategy so that our child won’t always look for him 😏 Yes he tries to help when needed but it’s really just “help” and not 100% dedicated in bonding and understanding our child. There are so many incidents which made me so livid, like my husband MUST finish replying his friends’ lame group chats before he respond to our LO 🤬 By then, my LO got very frustrated and refused his daddy. Till the extent, my LO doesn’t even let my husband pick him up from bed, like nope I don’t want to see this person the moment I’m awake 😳😳😳 And yes my husband doesn’t bother to improve too!! He think it’s okay for our LO not to be close with him, in fact he’s even happier that our LO leave him alone... Other husbands work long hours and away from home so understandable not close with child, but my husband basically WFH since our LO was born but still......
Shihui Karen