Hi, I’m not a single mum but my siblings(6) and I all have different surnames. For my case it’s fine cause none of us seems to be bothered by it. But I think if you’re keen to change to your current husband’s surname, definitely discuss with him and see if he is willing cause I do know of some people who don’t detest the child, but wouldn’t prefer the child bearing his surname if it’s not his blood. :)
I left it as my own surname. But my other kids often ask me why Korkor got different surname
So do u think is a good idea for me to change ? Cos i oso worried that when my child grows up and she might feel left out and feel different… but oso im hesitating ….
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