Hi all..
pls dont judge genuinely need some REAL adult advise.
it was a shotgun marriage, my husband and I we were together on and off many times since we were 14yo, now 23yo.
the reasons we broke off many times before was due to arguments, incompatibility. it was a spur of the moment when we said we wanted a kid and we got a kid hence marrying at 21 and a mom at 22..
during this period, my husband and I did have fun nice memories la but we both feel we r still not compatible with each other we still argue A LOT.
when times r good, both of us feel happy and how lucky we r to have a beautiful baby girl. but when times r bad, I start to feel regrets for marrying him but never regretting giving birth to my baby.
in all honesty, I've thought of divorcing. but I can't bear to let my daughter go thru this :(
After marriage. I've been in and out of depression.. i suggested to go for marriage counselling but he doesn't want he feel we r fine.
Some advice pls?? Is this just a phase? or do I just tahan for the sake of my baby?