Everyone recovery period is different staying tgt with mil is like that. They will have alot to say. Why not you just pass your baby to them for a night and see how they will feel from there.
Normal just give birth you need as least 1 month to recover will be good for you. Just talk to your husband and in law nicely.
Take ur time to recover and heal Everyone is diff
That's not v sensitive of them..
Stay strong ok