stroller: joolz aer+ - compact, one-hand keep and cabin-compatible. tried and tested.
https://s.shopee.sg/9zgT9AY75C
carrier: ergobaby omni breeze, can use from newborn onwards. please don't be fooled by cheapo ones on Shopee as they may be counterfeit, which means not safe for babies. a real ergobaby costs at least $200.
https://s.shopee.sg/qSEER8vSn
playmat: parklon lapure or air bubble. expensive at first glance but damn worth the money as can last for at least 10 years so mileage use is high. and once you touch other mats you can see why parklon is superior. it's really worth the money.
https://s.shopee.sg/1B54d9Dglw
https://s.shopee.sg/7fIYN869C7