I'm also expecting my 2nd boy now. Initially we thought will be a girl. But both NIPT and scan confirm is a boy. I'm fine with either boy or girl. My husband is disappointed at first but he accepted it. Both of us agree that we should stop at 2 because both my pregnancy are not easy. I have friend who tried and get all in same gender. To me, at least my 1st boy is not alone. Come to think same gender also good. They may have more common interest next time. 😊
i feel gender doesn’t really matter so long as they are healthy .. but financial and manpower support is enough, of cos the bigger the family the merrier!