different body responds differently. i had intercourse 2 and half months after postpartum, the first one was awkward but it got better during the 2nd and it got way better after the 3rd. i did not use lube cos i dont wanna be dependant on it. take it slow!
I tried after 1month. Phew it was abit painful!! I wasn’t really enjoying it but the subsequent ones were almost same like pre pregnancy. And the interval are just like every 3days apart.
Use tube is btr. Slowly attempt slowly. I finally accept it after 6 mths.