Okay lang ba pilitin ang mga anak nyo to do an activity just because you want them to learn it? Naaalala ko kasi when I was little my parents forced me to take piano lessons. And while I did eventually fall in love with the instrument, I can't help but wonder: paano kapag ayaw talaga nila?

Hindi dapat pinipilit. At first pwedeng pasubukan pero kung ayaw talaga, hanap pa ng ibang magugustuhan nya. Naaalala ko yung kumpare ko, gustong gusto nya na mag taekwondo ang anak nya. Todo bili pa sya ng uniform at hitting equipment. Pero ayaw nung anak nya at na-sayang lang lahat ng nabili nyang gamit. So naisipan nyan na pasubukin na mag soccer yung bata, eventually naawili at simula nung grade school hanggang ngayong highschool ay varsity ng La Salle Zobel.

You can encourage them to learn new things pero it's also important to ask them if they are interested in doing it. Parang sa pagbili lang din yan ng laruan, I always ask them if they want it kasi ayoko na pagdating sa bahay matatambak lang. It may sound petty but I've read somewhere that you have to let your children choose in order for them to become independent and it also helps them gain self-confidence later on.

It depends. I wish my parents pushed me a little harder to learn certain things, but I can also sympathize with kids who are forced to do something they don't really want to do. In the case of musical instruments, most kids start out not enjoying playing music, but learn a love for music later on. There's a big difference between forcing kids to do something and being supportive and encouraging though.

I guess okay lang to introduce several activities to them and from there, you can gauge what activities your kids find interesting. If you think it will be helpful for your child, continue to push it until he learns to love it, but you can also tell if he has no interest at all. You can shift to a different activity related to his interests.

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Hindi na din siguro kasi useless lang kung wala siyang interest sa gagawin niya. It's important na mag eenjoy siya sa ginagawa niya kasi dun siya matututo.

Para sa akin kung ayaw ng baby ko, wag ipilit . dahil Hindi cya mag I enjoy.susuportahan ko nlang cya Kong ano gusto nya,Yong masaya sya.

Para sa akin walang pilitan. Eventually makikita mo naman anu inclination ng anak mo, sa arts ba? sa sports? Then you start from there.

Hindi okay yung pinipilit kasi talagang tatamarin yung bata na gawin yung bagay kapag hindi nya gusto.