Is it normal to have few to almost no sex in a marriage? We got married 2 years plus only. And Like just maybe.. 2-3 times a year? And we do have a year + old infant with us. Last we did together was more than a year after giving birth lol…
Husb always rejecting and says he’s tired. Tried talking about this whole thing to him as felt kinda neglected like which guy doesn’t want sex..? But everytime I bring this topic up he kinda brush me off.
But his reaction is always the same like whenever I try to make a point he will either just keep quiet or just say tired. Or when he fed up that I keep asking why he doesn’t want, he will respond with together simple and happy why want to create issue. To him no intimacy isn’t a problem.
And I can confirm that it’s not like there’s another 3rd party cause we spent most times together.
Can I accept that it’s just his way of loving is through other means and sex is just not one of it? Just felt that no sex is like no intimacy. Then we are together is just like a partnership to have a family and kid that’s all. Also at times don’t feel that we are a couple..?
I’m getting used to this situation but Is this situation normal in marriage?