Need to ventilate all out. Need a listening ear.. I'm a SAHM starting jan this year looking after my two kids .. 4 & 2 years old . My Husband really hurt my heart when he said that I'm having a good life being a SAHM , whole day doing nothing .. while he slog outside n bring income for family . Unless u have been a full time SAHM , u won't understand how challenging it can be being a SAHM . I feel sad n hurt. Being a SAHM is not an easy task but I'm happy to take up this challenge especially seeing my children grow n reach different milestones . But my feeling is hurt over n over again when my hubby says that . Because I'm a SAHM, he doesn't really wanna help me with taking care of children. He sees me like a SAHM n so naturally all these are under my scope of work :( I'm so sad . Am I being too sensitive ?

Vô danh

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My hubby is totally the same like yours!!! He always says (in fact yest just say again) Sahm very good life one!!! I told him Sahm very tiring but he debated and said only ppl who work are tired but I told him Sahm have to take care or kids and play with them etc and most importantly in the night we can’t sleep well coz we need to keep waking up to check on the well-being and safety of our kids, even more tired than being who get to sleep throughout the night and work only!!!

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Home Random Talk need ventilate out need listening ear im sahm starting jan year looking after two kids 4 2 years old husband really hurt heart when said that im having good life being sahm whole day doing nothing while slog outside n bring income family unless have been full time sahm wont understand how challenging being sahm i feel sad n hurt being sahm not easy task but im happy take challenge especially seeing children grow n reach different milestones