Let me share with you a little bit of my story. I have a mom and a dad both in other countries. My mom is 16 years older then me. They are seperated. When i got married, no one came, she never met my husband nor my kids. Least to say she had never even bothered meeting me. Neither did she give me her blessings nor any contribution. Since young, she had been like this. Now i have 2 kids, they have never seen my boys. I often send her pictures though, never once has she acknowledged them. And this is my biological mum who studies counselling and psychology. And i ask myself, if my mom dont love me who would. Now what im trying to say is, those are your inlaws. Dont feel to bad about it, there are many others who have it hard as well. Not that im comparing to you. But i hope with this, you will feel better. I have broken down many times as well. Iam 25 years old this year and undergoing therapy. No one came to visit my boys or me either till the point that i was going to give birth and there was no one to help. No friends nor family. I understand how you feel. My message to you is simply this, you are not alone. Big hugs dear!