My first born is 6.5mths and I suspect I might be pregnant again! (unplanned). any parent can share your experience? was it easy to manage a toddler (by then #1 will be 16 mths or so) and a new born? I am ep-ing. do I need to stop if I am pregnant? feel guilty that this is happening too fast and #1 may not have enough attention from me yet and I am diverting to another :(