My boy is starting to throw tantrums in public. And shouts at us when we raise our voices at him. What should we do without creating a scene?? It's so trying :(

I won't give in. Once you give in to his tantrum, it will reinforce his thinking that screaming gets him whatever he wants and it will be a never-ending cycle. My friend actually told her daughter who was having a meltdown to cry louder and let everyone hear her. Interestingly, the girl stopped crying. Guess they're at the age where they hate listening to instructions.