Hai mama, first sekali congrats, tapi I totally faham lah anxiety kau sekarang, baru start kerja baru, anak second baru 7m, pastu pregnant lagi memang scary situation. Ambil breath dulu ye, banyak mummy Malaysia yang deal dengan benda sama, kau tidak sorang.
Untuk kerja, kau tidak perlu beritahu company immediately lagi, tunggu lepas 12 weeks first trimester screening dulu, confirm semuanya okay. Lepas tu baru kau plan cakap dengan HR atau manager, depending on company culture dan contract terms mu. Rights ko as pregnant employee ada, so jangan takut sangat, tapi memang smart kau prepare mental dan know your rights dulu. Many mummy here manage fine dengan company baru while pregnant, so it's doable lah.
For monitoring, yes klinik swasta is practical move sebab kau time constraint, tapi better you check dengan doktor as soon as possible untuk confirm dates dan ensure everything progressing well, especially after demam tu serentak, doktor akan advice what to do. Regarding suami dan anak demam serentak, boleh lah ada family virus, nothing to worry too much but do mention to doktor so they monitor closely.
Untuk mental health ko tu lagi important sekarang, makan proper, tidur cukup kalau boleh, dan share your feelings dengan suami atau trusted mummy friends. Kau strong mama, tiga anak is blessing walaupun spacing tight. You got this, one step at a time ye.