hi! been in your shoes more often than we would like, its kind of a recurrence for my son.. we have had different feeders: me, my husband, my in-laws, helper too, but still the same outcome 😅 we have been so mad that we have actually dragged him and his feeding chair into the yard and left him there to "reflect" 😂 he would cry buckets and claim he would eat proper but pulls the same stunt again...