Hi mummies, need some help here. My LO attends infant care, and has weekly swimming sessions. But recently my in-laws started commenting that she's not going out enough because she keeps staring at people and objects 🙄(I know it's a developmental thing, but these old folks just need an excuse to take her out to show off to their friends and families).
I am concerned too if she's too bored at home, but I prioritize her naps and feeds. My daughter dropped from her 25th percentile at birth to now 3rd percentile. So feeds are really non-negotiable for me. And she's so curious about her surroundings that every time she's outside of the house or outside of school she'd rather look around then eat/drink milk. (Same thing bringing her g.pa and g.ma's place. She refuses to eat or drink anywhere other than home and school) Mummy and daddy both work demanding jobs, so as much as we'd like to take her out on touristy activities, more often than not, it's a stroll around our neighborhood a couple of times a week.
If we're not doing something wrong, how do we tell these old folks to butt off nicely. And if we are, what should we do better?
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