3rd baby @ 30 weeks scan, 1.6kg. 😊
My 1st child was born 3.88kg @ 38+6, natural with epidural (but the epidural was administered pretty late and only fully took effect when baby was already out 😅😅).
My 2nd child was born 3.5kg @ 38+5, natural without any pain relief (not even laughing gas), cause I wanted to experience all natural process. 👍
I don't think there is an "ideal" weight for baby, but depends on your body size and your gynae's advice.
Kacy