Fear of labour, anyone going through this?

Me I super scare of pain. Plus I smaller in size (145cm tall). I know I cannot bear it & maybe will give up half way. Then will need to pay double bills. So I decided to have a elective c sect & delivery a baby girl last year. To me before giving birth I fear the opt wound will be very hard for me to handle. However after gave birth I felt still manageable. I stand & walk immediately after the nurse took of my catheter. This depend on people. Still natural birth is still recommended if u have no complication during your pregnancy. After all is still ur choice. :) all the best.

If you want to go for csec just let your gynae noe? I was more worried about paying double. No doubt i was afraid of pain as well, i went for vaginal delivery. I didnt have membrane sweeps n dilation check during my apptment. Only when i was at hosp then they did dilation check. I took epidural late so it could be the reason why i didnt feel any pain at all when i deliver. Even after epidural went off the next day, i didnt experience any pain. End of the day is really up to u!