My goodness, I can relate with you especially when you mentioned on your 2nd paragraph. I've received way too much help till i have lesser time with my baby. AND YES! I only get to spend time with my baby at night, which we all eventually will go to sleep?!! During the day, my baby will be in the living room till night. And everything will be done by my in laws giving me zero chance to learn! It took a toll on me, and i guess this part affected me so bad till i feel like i'm having postpartum depression. 😞
I totally totally understand you when you said "who's the mum here?" Exactly?! We get it that you guys wanna help us mothers who just gave birth, but know your limits lor?! That's my child leh, not yours. You're just the grandparents. And till when are we going to learn if you're going to do almost everything for us! So annoying. On a serious note, this really drove me crazy. Constantly feel so sad that i had lesser time with my baby :(