Do you have any intentions to get a helper?
Who is taking care of your firstborn during the day? Have you expressed your need for help from your hubby? Some men are oblivious to their wife needing help. Talk to him. Let him know about your suspected pregnancy too. Having a family involves two person. It's unfair you are struggling alone and no one knows anything. He has a duty to play as a hubby and father. Talk to him.
9months old cranky at night could be due to teething or growth spurt. Is baby active during the daytime? Did you overstimulate your baby? Did anyone play with baby before bedtime? It could make your baby restless at night and in need of comfort.
Do you have a close friend you can talk to?
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