Haha same here — mine cries every time too, like someone’s bullying my LO. Washing the body is totally fine, but the moment water touches the face or head, it’s instant screaming and crying 😅. my LO always end up negotiating with my helper to wash body only.
The only thing that works is getting daddy to shower with him so it becomes fun — they play with the water and help wash each other’s backs, and he doesn’t scream like crazy anymore. He’ll even wash himself sometimes. But since his daddy has to work and isn’t always around, it only happens on off days haha. Otherwise no choice, just let him scream as long as he gets his shower done.😅