Mummies, how do your stop crying when feeling heartpain when seeing lo suffers from illness or any form of pain/torture? My newborn is hospitalized with lung infection. I couldnt help crying whenever i hear her cries or see her being uncomfortable. She has already cried till her voice is hoarse. It pains me alot. To hub, he finds me irritating and ridiculous to cry. What can i do not to cry and be stronger?