Couples who tend to work through it are usually the ones where at least one person is willing to initiate the honest conversations, even when it feels uncomfortable, it rarely happens equally from both sides, and that's okay. The real red flags people talk about are when there's no longer any willingness to try, or when the environment at home starts affecting the children's sense of security and happiness. Most times, the breaking point isn't one big thing but a long pattern of feeling completely unseen and unsupported, no matter how one has tried. Whatever you decide, just know that staying for the children only works if both of you are genuinely putting in the effort, children are very perceptive, and a peaceful separated home can sometimes be healthier than a tense intact one.
I totally relate to what you’re saying! After five years, I've noticed our priorities shifted so much. Balancing kids and couple time is tricky! How do you all manage staying connected? https://topgames.gg/buildnow-gg