Did you start a family before or after you get your own apartment?

After. It feels more comfortable to be staying at our own house and knowing that these external help (in-laws or parents) need not be permanent. I personally don’t wish to burden the older ones when it’s time for them to relax and do their own things after long years of working and caring for us. But I’ve a lucky friend with a super young mum aka grandma who’s a housewife and also physically fit to take care of the grandchild. I also have a friend who somewhat got chased out by in-laws cuz the in-laws want back their “freedom” after taking care of my friend’s 2 babies HAHAHA interesting to uds how different grandparents think