Very true! As much as we have timetables and expectations for our children, nature/science says otherwise. Rather the child be confident and ready than we impose. Start with letting ur child observe ur toileting routines first, how u notice when u need to poo/pee, how u clean urself, what u feel and think. Always make it a talking aloud process even though it may seem awkward. Its a long process for a child to feel safe to try new things. Encourage to enter the toilet and talk about the functions of the toilet bowl, spray or tissue etc. Invite child to sit with the lid closed first, then move towards without pants with an open bowl and move forward from there. If not try again in a month, in a year. When child is mentally and physically ready 🙂↕️
don’t rush them. he will be ready someday and it will be an easy process