I totally get it, postpartum changes can feel really drastic. Before you go down the surgery route, have you thought about what timeline you're looking at? Some mums I know found that things settled a bit more by the 1-2 year mark after they finished breastfeeding, though obviously everyone's different. If you're set on exploring procedures, most will tell you to wait till you're done breastfeeding anyway, so you've got time to research and compare costs between clinics here versus Thailand or KL without rushing into it.