My husband is not helpful

Hi mummies, This is 4 the year of our marriage, both of us are working, we have 2 years s old kid too. My issue is my husband is not supporting me with household tasks. We both have busy and tiresome lives. But If we can share household tasks, at least I can have a little break. I feel worried and just remember old times before marriage, have you ever had days like mine? anyone has something to share with me 😌😌😌

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For me, in this situation, I will just do my kid and my own chores while he can do his. No clean plates? No fresh clothings to wear? It will stay that way until you learn how to clean after yourself or hire a maid. I am your wife, not your maid, not your mum. Sometimes things needs to work both ways. Especially tired today? Let me know, I will do the dishes and handle the kids, no problem but it shouldn’t be an everyday thing unless I’m a SAHM. Don’t let anyone take your kindness and efforts for granted.

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