Congrats on your courage to start fresh, your LO is lucky to have a mum who's already thinking ahead like this. There's a group called Divorce Support Singapore with over 1,000 members where people going through or recovering from divorce share real experiences and practical advice, not just emotional venting. My neighbour joined when her son was about the same age as your LO and said it genuinely helped her feel less alone in those early months. There's also Women's Support Group SG which runs a WhatsApp community, all kinds of women in there, divorce, single parenting, you name it, very grounded, real talk from people who've actually been through it.