Hello mama! Did you seek 2nd opinion next day? hopefully everything is ok. if I were in your shoes, I will seek 2nd opinion ASAP or next day as I wont be able to sleep with such uncertain answers.
I had similar experience at 1st trimester, maybe about week 8. The A&E in KK I met is young, maybe about 30. The way she talked is super direct and not emphatic. Well, she made vagina scan and saw baby is still there with heart beat. but she said if baby is not fated, she cant help to push back. It is true but kind of 'heartpain' to hear at the moment. We conceived after 1 year weekly TCM.
My case is vagina scan until week 10 .