In our relationship, im the one who is like that. Hindi ko mapigilan galit ko minsan. Kapag may sinabi kasi ako, i need to say it 3 times bago ako sundin. And ang nagyayari when it happens again, yung galit ko from previous na pagkakamali pumapatong. Maybe same with your husband?
Baka mommy better na unahan mo na kausapin yung bata bago pa umabot na sa point na mapapagalitan siya.