I sent my baby to IFC at 3 months old. Similar situation as you, initially I wanted to send at 4 months, but my IFC only had one available slot then. So far baby is coping well and not cranky in school, I guess they don’t have separation anxiety yet at this age.
For my IFC, first 2 days is half day and 1 parent allowed to observe. I sent baby 5 days a week right from the start, just that initially I pick her up quite early eg 2pm, then after that increase by 1 hour each day until full day.
Totally understand how you feel, I also felt immensely guilty for sending my baby to school at such young age. But over time, I feel happy seeing her growing more interactive and independent, also her sleep pattern seems to improve after attending IFC.
Anonymous