Ay, first time mom ka pa! Honestly, don't stress too much, you really don't need that much when baby comes home, kaya resist the urge to buy everything haha. A few of us in our playdate group always say the essentials are: newborn & 0-3 month clothes (onesies, sleepers, mittens, socks, tubig lang talaga ang gamit), a good baby wash and lotion (sobrang sensitive ang skin nila), diaper rash cream, thermometer, and basic first aid stuff. For laundry, mild baby detergent lang, soft towels, and waterproof mattress protectors para sa bedding. One of my mum friends swears she didn't even use half of what she bought kaya better to start simple tapos bili ka lang ng kailangan mo as you go along, trust me, your baby will tell you what you actually need!