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Hi Mommies! I'm 34 weeks pregnant and this is gonna be my 1st baby. Yung mom ko and mga titas and yaya ko pinipilit ako na mag stay muna sa bahay ng mom ko para maalagaan. Mahirap daw kasi mabinat. 2 lang kasi kami ng husband ko sa condo and mejj hesitant ako if dalawa lang kami since hindi ko naman pwede iutos sakanya lahat mapapagod din siya. Kaso gusto ni husby kaming dalawa lang kasi kaya naman daw. What should I do? Sino susunduin ko mom or husby ko? I'm a first time mom and 24 lang ako and petite :(

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Same here. 36weeks pregnant and my parents also want us to stay with them muna though may sarili nrn naman kmi bahay at kmi lng dn dalawa don. Depende sa inyo ni hubby mo. Kami kc mas gusto namin na nsa bahay namin kmi para may sarili kmi sanctuary. Bukod don, kung ano pagpapalaki na gusto namin s bata, mgagawa namin. Anyway, parents will always be there naman come the time you need help na sa lahat ng bagay. Ask your hubby first, unang unan mo iconsider kung ano gusto or opinion o thoughts niya about it kc family na ninyo ito. You two are in this together lalo na at maghusband and wife n kayo. If ok naman sknya, then go, pwd naman kayo to live with your mom. Anyway, sabi ko nga knina, parents will always be there. Pwd niu naman try kayo muna, then if later you'll really need extra hands, pwd niu naman pagbigyan mom mo or ask her na jan muna s inyo. Again, depende s inyo ni hubby mo.

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For me, it's better if mag stay ka muna with your mom. The 1st month of being a mother is really hard. Dun ko talaga na-appreciate ang nanay ko. Lalo na ung puyat nights, na every 1 to 2 hrs is need mo gumising to feed your baby. Lalo na if colicky si baby. You really do need all the help you could get.. Better to talk with you hubby...

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Aww thank you so much mumshie!