My kids have a strict routine daily. They have the same pre-bedtime routine, and lights out at 8pm every day. We don’t change their schedules, so they don’t ever complain about wanting to stay up either. That brings about sacrifices on our own part. We don’t go out late too. I personally think it’s worth it, and this is only temporary, after all. Building good sleeping habits in the kids helps them in the long run.
Each kid (4 and 1yo) sleeps in their own bed, in separate rooms. So no distractions, no noise/fuss.