Oh yes, motherhood can feel so isolating especially in the early days, so glad you're reaching out! Someone in my mum group mentioned Mindful Mama Meets, it's a homegrown, mum-led community here in Singapore where you can find your village, super warm and welcoming from what I heard. There's also New Mothers' Support Group (NMSG Singapore) which has been around for a while and throws playdates and casual meetups, and the best part is many of their events are free or heavily subsidised. Some mums love how easy it is to just show up and connect, though a few said it depends on the batch of mums you meet, sometimes you click right away, sometimes it takes a few sessions! Either way, keep trying because your people are definitely out there.