First time pregnant, help!

Question

Hi all Moms!! This is my my first pregnancy and I got tons of questions that need guidance from fellow experience moms. I just found out 1 week ago and went through polyclinic route to KKH. The first check I notice that KKH wait is super long even though u had an appointment date. Is this normal? Also, during the consultation/scan, the doctor seems to be very distracted/blur. Even after informing that I am not working currently, the doctor proceed to ask again if I needed HL (abit concern if they are really giving full attention when attending to me). Then during the check, especially ultra sound scan, when using transvaginal U/S it hurts. When feedback the doctor just said this is the max u will feel. Then continue to put pressure and it is really uncomfortable. I am wondering if this Is normal for mommies that go through KKH route?

Vô danh · Answer

Hi mama, congratulations on your pregnancy! The long waits at KKH are pretty standard unfortunately, a few mums I know went through the polyclinic route and said the first appointment itself can take 3 to 4 weeks to come through, and then on the day there's still quite a bit of waiting even with an appointment slot. It's the trade-off for the subsidized care, but I understand it's frustrating when you're anxious and just want answers! On the transvaginal ultrasound, some discomfort is normal in early pregnancy scans, but what you're describing (pressure that's really uncomfortable even after you've fed back) does sound like it went a bit far. A good sonographer should be responsive when you say something hurts; they can usually adjust their technique or take a break. The fact that the doctor seemed distracted about other details too makes me a bit concerned about the overall attention you received. Honestly, I'd say it's worth flagging this with your next appointment or even calling KKH to request a different doctor if you didn't feel heard, you have every right to do that. Your comfort and peace of mind matter, especially in your first pregnancy. If you're considering private care instead, do weigh up the costs, but don't feel stuck with an experience that didn't sit right with you. Worth a chat with your GP or the polyclinic doctor too about your options and concerns.