I think allowing others to carry is fine. but if baby is not and showing negatives signs, don't be afraid to stop.
Speak up!! Let her know your worries and concerns, don’t let her over step her boundaries.
Yes , You can politely explain her. I did it for mine and luckily i was success.
I wouldn't give anyone other than my husband such autonomy with my children
I think you should explain
Yeah please speak up!