Whether or not gusto nyo magka-anak at ilan, dapat po sana ay napag-usapan at kasunduan nyo na po iyan bago pa kayo nagpakasal. Anyways, still, it's something na kailangan nyo mapagkasunduan now. I don't think it's right na ilihim nyo po sa kanya ang paggamit ng any contraceptives, although naniniwala po akong karapatan nyo iyon, mukhang mas malaking problema kasi kapag nalaman nya. Napakalaking decision at parte ng buhay nyo po ang pag-aanak, kaya I think it's something that you guys as a couple must definitely reach a compromise on-- by hook or by crook.
Although I believe certain amount off white lies and/or keeping secrets in a relationship is a necessity to keep it healthy, I don't think using contraceptives should be one of them. Pag-usapan nyo po ulit na mag-asawa...
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