IUD / birth control

Question

Hello mga mhie hingi lang ako advice gusto ko kasi mag pa IUD after i give birth pero ayaw ni hubby gusto kasi nya madami anak altho we can afford it naman pero yung process of being pregnant kasi for 9mos hindi ko sya enjoy and before Im honestly okay with not having a baby but since na meet ko si hubby ofc i wanna give him what he wants also,but dont get me wrong i will love our baby more than myself. Im 30yrs old and gusto ko sana atleast after 5 or more yrs pa sundan since first baby naman namin But  my concern nga  is i feel like pipilitin nya ko magbaby ulit after just a few years for the reason na were getting older e hes only 1 yr older than me lang naman. Plus hes giving me hints about it. i dont have a problem with my husband taking care of me and my baby he is the best I can wish for i just cannot find a way to compromise on this bcos at the end of the day ako padin magdadala sa baby in my womb for 9mos. So what if ihide ko nalang sakanya na magpa IUD ako everytime?

Tere SC · Accepted Answer

Whether or not gusto nyo magka-anak at ilan, dapat po sana ay napag-usapan at kasunduan nyo na po iyan bago pa kayo nagpakasal. Anyways, still, it's something na kailangan nyo mapagkasunduan now. I don't think it's right na ilihim nyo po sa kanya ang paggamit ng any contraceptives, although naniniwala po akong karapatan nyo iyon, mukhang mas malaking problema kasi kapag nalaman nya. Napakalaking decision at parte ng buhay nyo po ang pag-aanak, kaya I think it's something that you guys as a couple must definitely reach a compromise on-- by hook or by crook. Although I believe certain amount off white lies and/or keeping secrets in a relationship is a necessity to keep it healthy, I don't think using contraceptives should be one of them. Pag-usapan nyo po ulit na mag-asawa...

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Vô danh

5mo trước

maraming salamat po. maybe its also me na i keep changing my mind bcos honestly napag usapan naman a lot of times and even if mag bf/gf palang kami lagi na nya sinasabi that he wants a big fam for himself na parang dream nya talaga kasi 2 lang sila magkapatid.contrary naman on my side i have a big family. i just love him so much siguro thats why nag agree ako before somehow.