Haha relatable sangat! A few of my mum friends with thicker tummy juga ada cerita sama, constipation memang buat harder to feel the kicks, especially in early weeks lagi. The good news is baby's movements will get stronger and clearer as you progress, so habis sudah la susah tu eventually! For now, lepas bowel movement tu is when you'll feel the movements clearest, so boleh la pakai that as your "reset" moment to do your kick counts if you're worried, bayimu tengah active juga kat sana lah, just harder to detect through the belly. Keep up with the pink book notes though, and any time you're genuinely concerned (like if suddenly gerak berkurang drastically from your normal pattern), just check with your doctor cepat-cepat, tak perlu tunggu long