Does he cheat? Or does he treat u differently after marriage. Sometimes we just have find a way to rekindle back to love, marriage is getting thru thick and thin together unless he cheats and doesnt provide for u then its an issue. Im married for 10 years, on my 5th to 7th year i felt like i dont love him, i argue with him alot, i fell into depression then we seek help and of course i feel Im always right. Now everything is better, we had a lot of talks, i put aside my anger, and even had an option to go for counselling with a professional to save the marriage. He understands me more and a hands on daddy and put in effort to make me happy, its not perfect but its something worth saving. Take care mummy! Do whats good for your soul ya!
U can go for counselling first. Try to work things out for the sake of your baby.. marriage is a journey. It’s more den just love or sex, its a whole new world of partnership and responsibility.. the first 5 years is always challenging. Seek help ok 💪🏼
sounds alike my story..mine is just into first year of marriage, got to know my spouse through working, he's a foreigner and now I am a ftm :( he doesn't pay much attention when I told him it's more tiring taking care of baby than having to go to work.
Perhaps too much focus on baby and forgot he is also a human who needs love and care? I will feel he may have something else, but try speak out and work it out together?
You may want to seek for counseling first: https://www.msf.gov.sg/policies/Marriages/Pages/Marriage-Counselling.aspx Hope it helps.
Me in same situation