How to deal with itchy workmate

Question

Mamsh how do you handle itchy workmates? Yung asawa ko kase laging nilalapitan nung ka workmate nya. 7 years yung tanda sa asawa ko. May three kids na at nagka dalawang asawa na. Nilalayuan naman daw nya ang kaso makulet si girl. Ayoko sana magpaka stress kase nasa first trimester ako ng pag bubuntis pero di ko talaga maiwasan lalo nat nagsusumbong sa akin asawa ko.#advicepls #pleasehelp

Maria · Answer

Ay mamsh, nakakastress talaga yan lalo na first trimester ka pa lang! Honestly, a few of us moms here have been in similar situations, and what worked is just having a calm conversation with hubby about boundaries, like, he should keep it strictly professional and avoid one-on-one situations kung hindi necessary, kasi alam niya naman it makes you uncomfortable. The fact na sinasabi niya sa iyo agad ay good sign na walang hidden agenda, pero I get it, hormones + pregnancy anxiety make everything feel ten times scarier, so maybe set clear expectations lang together (no late meetings alone, no personal chats) and then try to focus on your pregnancy muna kasi stress talaga is not good for baby. You got this, and remember your mental health matters too during this trimester!

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