Congrats mama! Okay, for hospital bag, I'd say pack two sets, one for you (comfy nightgowns na may buttons para sa breastfeeding, extra underwear, toiletries, phone charger, snacks), and one smaller bag for baby (newborn at 0-3 months onesies, mittens, socks, a few blankets kasi clingy ang init sa hospital). A few of us first-time moms din nag-overthink, pero honestly yung hospital usually provides most of what baby needs naman, so don't stress too much, focus lang on comfort items para sa iyo dahil mahirap ang recovery at kailangan mo ng rest! One tip: ask your OB kung ano talaga expected na mag-provide ang hospital so hindi ka mag-duplicate ng dala.