maintaining marriage is not easy. how do you all manage a hot-temper husband?

Knowing when to keep quiet when you know the volcano is going to erupt helps. Take hints of the tone and choice of words used and you can sense the level of tension, then take a step back. Two hot headed person will result into an argument. Remember not to raise your voice, because when we do that, we hear the sound but we don't listen to the grievances.