I think u need to teach your husband to be a better husband for saying such things to you. Anyways, most kids like to bully their mothers because they know we love them so much. Sorry to say but I bring in the cane when my son starts walking, only when I have to. Not those abusive caning cuz I cant do it, just very light hit, only for him to know whats acceptable and whats not. Now he is barely 3 and just needs stern tone. Always trying to challenge me but he knows he cannot bully mommy when I am serious.