Live In O Kasal?

Live in then kung sure na kayo sa relationship nyo, kasal. Live in does not automatically mean na magkaka-baby kayo, nasa inyo pa rin yan. But it's an opportunity to learn how that person is when they're tired, angry, broke, etc. Marami nagsasabi kapag kasal na lumalabas ang tunay na ugali, that's because hindi nila kinilala nang lubusan bago sila ikasal. Hence living together before getting married. I don't consider it a waste of time. Hindi naman ako nagmamadaling ikasal, and I'd rather take my time than marry the wrong person A marriage contract will not guarantee that your spouse won't cheat or your relationship won't go stale. If they cheat, they cheat, and without a marriage certificate, you can end things easily, move on, and be with someone better. Keeping a relationship happy and passionate requires effort from both parties. You can do so even if you don't have a certificate to prove it. I know someone who got pregnant and got married before giving birth. Now their kid is 6, they're separated after a year of marriage. Now she's stuck with the surname of a man she used to love, and she won't be able to marry someone else unless they get annulled. We're not married yet so technically my son is illegitimate. But that does not make him any less of a person. That does not lessen his value. He is smart, sweet, curious, and determined, and what the law says about the circumstances of his conception ans birth can never change that. My partner is a good man and I know he would do right by our son even if he is considered illegitimate. There are legal remedies for that anyway. Hindi ko worry na wala akong habol sa kanya, I am educated, I had a good career prior to my first pregnancy, and I know I have the skills to support myself and our kids kung maghiwalay man kami. Hindi ko kailangan ng marriage certificate para siguraduhin na hindi nya ko lolokohin or iiwan, I'd rather we part ways amicably than stay miserable together.