It's good that u took sometime to response to ur husband's apology. Cry if u must n it will ease your burden, insyaAllah. We have to accept sis, that our husband is not perfect n he will never be. The only one who wud listen to our cry is Allah swt. He understand us, He knows what happened to us eventho we dont knw have words to describe our feelings. At the end, He is the only love we desire n attention we seek. We often think that our husband/parents/children is the one that understand us. Allah swt becomes jealous of our love towards His creature. That's why He showed us the weakness of our husband/parents/children so that we will only rely on Him, we will only seek His attention n we will prioritise Him in every way.
So, be thankful sis. Allah swt loves you so much, He wants u to come back to Him. He reminded you that His love for you is much bigger n stronger than your husband/parents/children. Rely only on Him as He is our Mighty Protector.