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If it’s me, yes, he’s expected to pay for everything related to delivery charges unless he’s bankrupt. It’s his child for god’s sake and you’re done your part for the whole pregnancy. It’s the least he can do.
For prenatal, we used our joint account funds. Hospital bills he paid with his cpf and deduct from joint account for balance (he puts in more monthly since he’s earning more).
For our first, I paid the delivery charges but Medisave cut from his. So kinda 50-50? For our second, he wanted to pay for everything so includes deposit and Medisave
Husband pays for everything. Even pre natal checkups. And all supplements. We carry the baby for so many months… that’s the least he can do.
My husband paid for everything major. I’m in charged of baby clothings, bath tub, milk powder and diapers.
our income earnings are roughly similar so we split the bills to be fair to both parties
my husband earns more than 3x of me so he picks up everything voluntarily.
We split the bills almost 50-50 but not so exactly or calculative.
He paid for the first kid, and I paid for the second kid.